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Written by the CollegeCodex.com Staff
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In this guide, we'll talk about process of joining a fraternity, what usually happens, and what you can expect.
The Rush Process
Compared to sororities, the process of rushing a fraternity is a laid
back experience. You probably won’t be required to visit every
house, usually unlike the sorority system. Sororities often hold
elaborate events and themed-parties to recruit prospects.
Fraternities simplify the process; they order tacos from Taco Bell or
hot wings from Hooters. While you’re all munching away on the
complimentary hor’dourves or shooting baskets, you’ll begin talking
about the fraternity.
It’s usually fairly informal. If you get along with the members,
you get a bid. If your conversations are awkward and forced, you
probably won’t get a bid. Regardless, there are many other houses
to explore.
Many people receive bids from multiple houses. Take your
time to decide. Joining a fraternity is a life-long
commitment. Eventually, you will find a house that stands above
the rest.
The Pledge Process
Time spent being a pledge is usually considerably longer than
sororities, many times lasting an entire semester. The pledge
process focuses on the development of brotherhood between pledges and
members. Fraternities ask pledges to participate in team building
activities.
Be careful, though. Hazing has the potential to develop during the pledge process.
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